- Fix one thing at a time. If we're playing with some maneuver and some other game breaks, fix that FIRST and then go back to what you're doing. I have a habit of just trying to make it all work.
- I treat Moose a lot like how I DON'T want to be treated: someone with a lot of expectations that is never satisfied. Just a "how interesting!"
- Need a lot of Friendly Game with me on his back, just hanging out. I want to get to where he likes me being up there.
- He has gotten SOOOOO much better at cantering! He read my mind actually. I asked him to trot, and he went and cantered a lap. It was amazing! I think this month off has really gotten him used to cantering around the pasture a bit, because it was so much easier for him today than it normally is.
- I need to set boundaries with people.
- Be gentle without being a wimp, but be firm without being mean or mad.
- I can be firm and that’ll be ok. I don’t have to be a dictator, but it’s perfectly alright to have expectations of people.
- Whatever happens, happens.
- I CAN NOT control what others think of me. That is out of my control. So there is no use adjusting my actions for an expected response from someone.
- It’s OK to have people mad at me. That’s alright. In fact it may be healthy. I can’t control them. But I can stand up for myself. And it’s ok to do that. (I hate it when people are mad at me)
- I have the POWER to change my life
- I don’t have to put up with this kind of stuff from people. I can expect things from people and that’s ok. At the moment, people walk all over me.
- It’s a respect issue. I’m afraid to phase 4 ppl because I don’t want to hurt their feelings. But I need to do this sometimes for my own sake. This is MY life. Not theirs.
Enjoy the nice weather today everyone! :)
Have fun horsin around! :)